Hi everyone,
Today we had our 20 week scan and we had a confirmed GIRL!!!! I am sooooooooooo excited!! I have been bouncing around all afternoon!
I had been researching gender swaying for about a year and decided to put my faith in A-Gender. They had a strong success rate and Cindy & Maree were just wonderful with all my questions. I knew they would give me my best shot possible.
I currently have 1 daughter aged 8yrs, 2 son’s aged 6 and 4. I really wanted another daughter and really wanted to give my daughter a sister.
We ordered our plan and our 6mths of dates were from January – June 2009.
I had been worried as over Christmas and New Year we had been away camping and the diet went out the window! I did try to be as girly as I could but sometimes it was just not possible. I gained about 2kg which bothered me. I then had to be a bridesmaid in mid Jan and I was determined to lose those 2kg. So again, I did a few girlie foods but I also managed to lose the 2kgs.
So, I must admit I was a bit worried about my diet while we were TTC. It was ok, but not perfect.
We attempted in January, with a great attempt, but with no luck.
Then our Feb attempt went perfectly.
I was lucky and my dates aligned perfectly with my period. My husband and I were both in Girl time. We followed our plan and did the deed when we were supposed too.
My PH was 4.5 and my husbands were 7.5-8. Perfect!
In March I got my positive pregnancy test and was sooooo excited. 2mths was all it took.
It has been an anxious wait to find out the gender. I obsessed over my 12 week scans nub. Not that there really was a good shot of the nub!
I couldn’t wait so booked a 16 week private scan at a 4D place. I went to the scan and they told me it was a boy!!! I was really shattered. Much more then I thought I would be. I cried as soon as I left and didn’t stop for 2 days. I felt so guilty for feeling the way I did. So guilty that I had another beautiful healthy baby boy and I was upset about it. I had some wonderful supportive friends online on another forum group who helped me through the hard and disappointing time.
My daughter was convinced it was a baby girl! The whole time she has been adamant the baby is a girl! We decided to take her to the 20 week scan so she could hear from the technician that it was a boy as I was sure she would not believe me. I felt she needed to see for herself. I was wondering if she would suffer her own level of gender disappointment.
So today we went for my 20 week scan and to my absolute shock the tech said it was a girl!
There were no boy bits what so ever! She is all girl! Our swaying attempt worked and we are an a-gender success story!
I would like to thank Cindy and Maree for all the hard work and time they put into answering all my emails and doing my plan. They have been a great support to me over this journey.
I truly believe that without their help we would have had another boy.
I can’t wait to November to meet our beautiful baby daughter.
Thank you so much to A-Gender!
Jazz (you can see Jazz’s post on our forum)
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